In my email...Thank you its just what i needed...

"Dear B,

Hey, sorry about the whole B-day thing..I know you arent mad. So you cried last night..again..Darlin when are you gonna see she is no good for you. She lies to you and hurts you day in and day out. I would never tell you what to do but in my advice DO NOT GO BACK!!! Please.. You will prob. call me tonight crying again if you do. From the looks of it this girl has minipulating and lieing down to an art! You do not need this in your life. I know you and I have had our differences but, trust me you deserve a million times better. I'm not saying you two are not meant to be but, if you two are then i do not think it is meant for now at all. I do not think she knows how to be in a real relationship. Hey, I could be wrong..but i do know that she does not know how to love you and the harsh reality of it B is that i do not think she really gives a damn to try and figure it out either. I have been in the background on this situation for awhile now but, i really think she is starting to use you, you are like her little torture device or foot rug which ever. Either way she does not love you like she says otherwise she would not make it her goal to hurt you, at least that is what it seems. I know you say you love her.. I can tell, but, sometime we make bad choices in life and i think she was yours.. I Love you along with many other people.. and everytime i talk to you, you are crying, and over what.. her??? Just leave her alone.. Let me know a good time bc i think you need to get away from there..so as soon as you can take off work im sending you a plane ticket for you to come here!! I love you, please take this in consederation and do not be upset with me lol..!! for you -

Love Another Day
Rascal Flatts

It's 3 AM and you're still wide awake
Wondering how much more your broken heart can take
All he left you with was shattered dreams
I know it's hard to see right now, it's not as bad as it seems

You'll live to love another day
Happiness is on it's way
Hold on
It won't be long
I know the pain you're living in
Sometimes you've got to lose to win
It's okay
Don't you worry baby
We all live to love another day

I know you say you've lost your faith in love
And it's not written in the stars above
I wouldn't tell you anything but the truth
I've been where you are
And I'm living proof

You'll live to love another day
Happiness is on it's way
Hold on
It won't be long
I know the pain you're living in
Sometimes you've got to lose to win
It's okay
Don't you worry baby
We all live to love another day

What's here right now didn't come to stay
The sun is gonna rise again and the clouds will roll away
Believe me when I say

You'll live to love another day
Happiness is on it's way
Hold on, hold on
I know the pain you're living in
Sometimes you've got to lose to win
It's okay
Don't you worry baby
We all live to love another day

Don't you worry baby
We all live to love another day

Rascal Flatts started ya'll (i think,is that right??) Anyways i figured they should be the ones to let you get over her too!
I love you!!

Ciao Bella
Neil"